Dreams are funny things. They drive us, ethereal as they may be. They give us something semi-tangible to shoot for. If we didn’t all have dreams, we wouldn’t have New Year’s Resolutions. Those are just little dreams we’d like to achieve. But, sometimes we have bigger ones.

Back in 2009, I had a vision. It was a website that like-minded dudes could use to find changing stations so they could change a diaper. I won’t bore you with the story here, but the genesis of this vision is on my About page. Needless to say, this has been harder than I initially imagined. When you get caught up in your fever-dream, you think everyone will embrace your dream as ferociously as you do. In my naivete, I assumed by now, that I’d have hundreds of cities across the US mapped out for easy use for new dads.

Alas, that hasn’t happened. And I’m okay with that. Except, that 2014 is the year I NEED to make this happen on a grander scale. Currently, my map is interesting, but it’s not all that useful as there just isn’t enough data in it. And being a lowly blogger, I don’t have the funds to hire a call center to make the phone calls necessary to get a good chunk of data to jumpstart this thing. I haven’t really gone out and asked people directly for help very often, because I didn’t want to be ‘That Guy’. You know the one, the broken record who only says one thing ALL THE TIME.

You see them online all the time. “Buy my stuff!” “No, really, please…buy my stuff!” “Hey, did you know I had stuff for sale? You should buy it!”…

So, I backed away from that strategy. And it’s garnered me a modest following. But DadsWhoChangeDiapers isn’t just about fart jokes and funny ramblings as they hit my head. That’s the fun part, sure. And I love that! But, sitting down, I had to stare at the cold hard fact: the raison d’ĂȘtre for this entire site is the map. I’m currently writing a proposal for a kickstarter campaign or an indigogo campaign to help fund the production of an app, but for now, I need to focus on the map.

Recently, it came to my attention that another dad blogger decided to ‘make it his mission’ to get more changing stations in mens rooms. I then found out a friend of mine contacted him regarding my site and was promptly brushed off. This saddens me. Mostly because I’m not opposed to partnerships to make this happen. I’m not in this for some sort of spotlight. I just want to make a product that new families can use to make sure a baby can get a diaper changed in a clean place that’s dad-accessible if needs be.

This is where you come in. I need your help. I need you to share this site, this mission, to everyone you can. I need more people adding locations. I need partnerships. I can’t do this alone.

If you like the idea behind my site, if you wish you had one of these when you were a new dad, if you wish it was more usable for you right now, please, help a daddy out. The next clean bum, might be because of you.

Thank you,


Scotty Schrier (DiaperDad)

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12 Responses

  1. G.B.

    I think you win for the most passive aggressive blog post of the year but it’s only January.

    • diaper_dad

      Says the person who couldn’t be bothered to give any actual details about themselves. I was going to call you Captain Irony, but I don’t think you’d get it. So, I’ll just call you Gertrude.

      Okay, Gertrude, I’m confused. How does asking for the help of my readers constitute being passive-aggressive? But then, I’m not entirely sure what I’m thinking by asking you, because you can’t understand irony…how could you possibly be expected to understand passive-aggressiveness? I don’t normally feed the trolls, but you tried so hard, that I just thought I’d do it just this once.

      Now, please Google what irony means before bringing your garbage back into my house.

      P.S. – I don’t think you are even Canadian.

  2. Nick

    I’m gonna share on all my facebook and twitter accounts for both my blog and the poppin’ bottles dad-cast. Was thinking of putting together a post of my own and linking to you, as this has been something that has driven my wife and I crazy recently, since we’ve got a 4-month old now! And, we’d love to get you on the podcast with me and Ben to help spread the word even more!

  3. B Jarvis

    You rock!! I’m with ya all the way.I will let you know as I hit stations around willamette valley viva el padres !!
    Ps clothe diapers smell better just info

  4. Tim H

    Love this. I’m a father to a 2 year old and I HATE going into the restrooms with no changing table for Dad. How many phone calls are you hoping to make? Do you have a list? I have put together a lot of these phone bank drives and could find the people and $ for it, so long as I have a list to call from.

  5. Samantha

    I’m a mom of a big 10 months old,and I have a 15 years old very big gap in age. I saw your website and though it was great I can’t tell you how many times I’ve needed to change my baby and their was NO changing table in the restroom, and I’m a mom. Women have been having babies for decades and needing to change diapers how can there not be a changing table in a bathroom. For moms and dad’s it’s hard. Just to let other parents know, Marshalls is one of my favorite stores it does not have a changing table I dont shop their as often as i did, and neither does Office Max here in Joliet, Ill.


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